At a Glance
Thinking about a wedding on the water? Boat weddings are rising in popularity for good reason. Couples love the views, the intimacy, and the all-in-one convenience. But there are also a few things to consider, like guest count, seasickness, and weather. We gathered real feedback from couples who’ve done it to help you decide if this unique venue is right for you.
Why Boat Weddings Are a Vibe Right Now
Tired of hotel ballrooms and crowded banquet halls? So are a lot of couples. Weddings on yachts, catamarans, and sailboats offer something different: ocean breezes, panoramic views, and a built-in sense of adventure. If you’re curious what it’s actually like to say “I do” on deck, read on.
What Couples Loved Most About Boat Weddings
1. Stunning Backdrops with Zero Effort
Boat weddings deliver unbeatable scenery. Sunsets, city skylines, open water, and golden hour magic. Most couples said they barely needed any extra decor.
“The scenery was so stunning, we barely needed decorations at all.”
2. Naturally Intimate Vibes
The size of most boats encourages closeness. Guests feel connected, not spread out. Think cozy, romantic, and just the right amount of personal.
3. All-In-One Convenience
No need to juggle vendors. Most charters offer full packages: ceremony, food, drinks, music, and coordination.
4. Unexpected Magic
From dolphins crashing the ceremony to sunset sail moments, couples raved about the natural surprises that made their day unforgettable.
What to Consider Before Booking a Boat Wedding
1. Smaller Guest List Required
Most wedding boats max out at 30 to 120 guests. If you’re dreaming of a 200-person bash, you’ll need a plan B.
Smart workarounds:
- Host the ceremony at sea, then a larger reception on land.
- Embrace the intimacy and keep it just your inner circle.
- Use RSVP tools to manage headcount and set expectations early.
2. Motion and Seasickness
Even if the water looks calm, some guests may be uneasy about being on a moving boat.
Easy fixes:
- Choose a stable vessel like Aolani’s wide-body catamaran.
- Include ginger chews or motion relief meds in welcome bags.
- Consider dockside ceremonies if you’re concerned.
3. Weather Can Be a Wild Card
Rain, wind, or even fog can change plans fast.
Stay prepared:
- Choose boats with indoor/outdoor spaces (like Aolani’s covered deck).
- Book during calm-weather months.
- Review cancellation and backup policies before signing anything.
4. Limited Decor Flexibility
Space and safety rules might limit what you can bring aboard.
Keep it simple:
- Focus on statement florals, signage, and LED lighting.
- Let the ocean views do the heavy lifting.
- Work with the charter team on what’s allowed and what works best.
Creative Solutions from Real Couples
- Boat ceremony + land reception: Best of both worlds.
- Docked parties: All the views, none of the motion.
- Swap real rings for fakes: Avoid overboard mishaps.
- Pre-wedding tips for guests: Help them prep for motion, attire, and expectations.
Quick Pros & Cons Recap
Pros
- Scenic, built-in backdrops
- All-inclusive packages (food, drinks, music)
- Cozy, intimate energy
- Unique and memorable for guests
- Wildlife sightings and photo moments
- Onboard gourmet dining
Cons
- Smaller guest limit
- Potential for seasickness
- Weather sensitivity
- Less room for custom decor
FAQs About Boat Weddings
Is a boat wedding a good idea?
Yes. If you’re looking for something scenic, unique, and intimate. Perfect for adventurous couples and smaller guest lists.
How many guests can I invite?
Most boats accommodate 30 to 120 people. Always check with the charter for exact capacity.
What happens if the weather’s bad?
Reputable charters (like Aolani) have indoor areas and flexible policies. Always confirm the backup plan.
Can I have music and dancing on a boat?
Absolutely. Many wedding boats include sound systems and a dance area—just coordinate details with your vendor.
Aolani is San Diego's premier catamaran yacht charter, offering luxury experiences on a 58-foot vessel with five-star service. Our Captain and Crew ensure a smooth and enjoyable journey.
